Why People of No-Fap Succeed!

First of all let me explain, what No-Fap is, for those who may not know yet. It means no masturbation, no porn watching, and no other sort of erotica material usage. Now that’s out of the way, let us ponder over the reason why people of No-Fap have found success in their lives.

It’s like this, whenever you do your favorite activity in life, you feel great. The feeling is enhanced by the fact if that favorite things earned through hard-work and self-sacrifice. There are many things in life of this sort, for example: when you get an amazing grade after studying for an exam, and pulling many sleepless nights for it. And when you get that promotion that you have been eyeing at for a couple of years now, you feel phenomenal, after achieving it.

      But even when you open up you lap-tap and you go on some sleazy website, and you masturbate to porn you feel good too. These are all rewards, but the difference between them and the act of PMO (watching porn, masturbating, and eventually reaching a climax.) that separate it from the rest of the rewards is the fact, which you don’t really have to work for it. It is virtually effortless to obtain.

     Let’s put things into perspective here. In order to get that satisfying feeling that comes with getting a good grade, you have to go to class. You have to take semi-decent notes. And eventually you have to study for it. This requires a significant amount of time and effort.

     But watching porn on the other hand is as easy as it can be. You start-up your computer and you click your mouse a couple of times, until you find a video that you like. And instantaneously you can reward yourself, with pleasure.

On top of that, porn and masturbation triggers one of the most powerful and pleasing rewards your body can naturally give itself.

   It’s a reward that, you normally only achieve by meeting a potential mate coming off as an attractive mate, and eventually growing the balls to make a move and having sex. But nowadays it’s available at the click of a button.

    Imagine, if you could get an “A” on any test or exam by just a click of a button! Would you ever put in the effort and time to study? If you could lose weight or gain a lot of muscle and an attractive body, with just a click of a button. Will any one be mad enough! To ever think of going to gym again. After all that hard, sweaty, fatigue, and pain filled gym routines. Will anyone adjust their diet? If you could eat anything or any amount of junk-food and still remain healthy, will you ever go on a diet or eat your greens? (That is, if you are not into greens as much as porn itself?)

   The same way, if you could get any girl or a guy with just the click of a button, will anyone ever work on their social skills or even bother to think about others feelings and their likes and dislikes.(Most of us would not even stop taking showers before a date!!!). Will you try to look handsome or pretty or more attractive, if you can get them through clicking buttons?

    See people who masturbate and watch porn a lot, often report of lower levels of motivation and energy. This is because for the simple reason, that is that one of the most pleasurable thing in nature is already in arms reach, at the click of a button. There’s been a movement in the past couple of years that’s gathered a lot of momentum, called the No-Fap movement. Its members try to resist the temptations, which is literally plastered all over the place in modern societies.

   The majority of its members who stop PMO for over 30 days have reported some of the following benefits:

1.       They have increased levels of motivation.

2.        Increased levels of energy.

3.       And increased levels of confidence in social interactions.

It’s like this, when you tell your body, that you are only ever going to get this tasty, beautiful, and pleasurable reward if you actually go out there and earn it. Your body will start to adjust to the new circumstances, so that it becomes possible. It’s going to give you the energy and the motivation that you need for that journey.

     So stop rewarding yourself today for doing absolutely nothing and you will see a change very soon. And it’s not just watching porn, which can have this effect. There are other rewards out there that can have the same detrimental effect on your lifestyle. Things like sugary foods, video games, drugs, and alcohol. All these things are some form of instant gratifications.

    They’re too easy to obtain and they provide short bursts of pleasures. And the reason people who do No-Fap find themselves on the path of success or on a path of upward growth, is not just because they don’t watch porn or masturbate. It’s actually because they’ve retaught themselves, how to put in the time and effort, before reaping the rewards of their labor. 

    They know that, they have to put in the work in order to succeed, to exercise in order to feel healthy, to study to feel smarter, to meditate(pray) in order to feel happier, etc. what members of No-Fap are actually doing, is they’re forcing themselves to succeed in order to feel pleasure. When you reward yourself for doing nothing, all the time, you’ll find out that your mentality will be just like that of a dog. Who is given too many treats, for no apparent reason, who becomes lazy and unmotivated?

   Ask yourself this… Am I rewarding myself all the time for doing absolutely nothing?